There are many people that judge the behaviour of men which are today... 40+.

And 99% of the remarks are .... negative, but nobody really understands why the hell things are the way they are happening.

And the most difficult question is ... why all those men are chasing only and only for beautiful vibes and nothing more?!

How can a person .... coming to an age when knows a lot about life ... can act into such a stupid way?!

And why the man over 40 ... have absolutely no plans for a relationship ... except enjoying the present moment ... and nothing more?!

Well .... I had the chance to talk with psychologists ... women ... and heard many women ... their patients... complain that men are actually acting into the love story ... simple like thieves stealing their time.

.... which is actually true.

Cause ... yes ... we are jerks ... wasting their time .... living amazing experiences into the now ... but nothing more.

 

And you know why?!

Well ... we are not idiots.

No ... or at least not so idiots like we look like.

Consciously or unconsciously ... we realise that the life itself it's an illusion... and having any real plan ... it's just useless.

Maybe ... the wisest thing we could do in front of the illusory is simple smile ... and enjoy the moment itself.

Anything else ... it's useless.

We know it.

We feel it ... right after being 40 and even if we look like we lost our minds not wanting anything from future ... it's the main philosophy of life from our heads.

Unfortunately … the woman ... even if she really loves the story itself ... is feeling frustrated ... and even offended.

She wants ... stability.

Wants to have the certainty of the future.

But ... i dare to ask ... who the hell knows the future?!

Who knows what will happen tomorrow?!

And why should we think about tomorrow if today is just perfect?!

... also ... why should we bother love letters worry or to plan anything ... when the life itself it's illusory?!

 

Most certainly ... the man, but also the woman needs to study more ... psychology.

To understand each other ... deeper.

In fact .... understand and accept each other with pluses and minuses.

 

 

But if the moment is perfect ... and you are in an amazing story ... stop any sort of analysis ... and allow your souls to enjoy those beautiful vibes.

Anything else is ... useless.

 

 

 

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